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    Translation: you’ll become more conservative when you have children and own a home

    Millennials: 😆
    Zoomers: 😂
    Alpha: 🤣
    Whateverthefuckcomesnext: 💀

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      I have a child and own a home, and am a member of the lost generation. Fuck the Republican Party and any conservative who believes their selfish bullshit should outweigh the greater good of others.

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          I agree about Republicans. I don’t agree about Democrats. Some, of course, are conservative, as they historically always have been. But a good portion are quite liberal.

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            As a whole, the Dems are pretty center of the aisle, because America as a whole is fairly conservative compared to Europe (despite 60% of the population being more liberal than the government at most times). Europeans generally consider the Dems in the US a conservative party, and corporate Dems are definitely closer to the right than to the left. The other issue besides the general conservative leaning in the country though is that there’s about 50 other groups of various left leaning shades that would be their own separate parties in Europe but are bunched in with the corporate Dems and therefore have little say in the party platform.

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            Seems people feel the need to try to educate me, not really sure why. But whatever :)

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      Ok that’s a fair but sad take.

      I’m conservative but became more socially liberal in my 30’s

      My friend who were liberals, who had children and homes grew slightly more conservative but still were liberals.

      But I do think that is what drives it is the children and homes. You have to care about schools, crime, etc since you’re in the thick of it.

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        Which is weird since conservative politics is all about cutting funds for schools, gutting the department of education completely, no pre k or free lunches for kids, and getting rid of a large portion of our law enforcement. Just doesn’t make sense why any one who cares about education or safety would be conservative

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          Not all conservatives are that way. I support free meals at schools. It makes sense. It’s investing in our children.

          Cutting is a complicated topic. The general consensus is throwing money at a problem isn’t the way to solve it all the time. So I’m not for or against spending on schools until we know what problem the money will solve. If we can’t show a benefit then it shouldn’t be spent.

          Kansas City spent over a billion dollars trying to fix their schools and it didn’t work. Wasted money.

          Cutting law enforcement? Most conservatives want more law enforcement.

          Also don’t confuse the people who are shit stains with an old school conservative like myself. They’re not the same thing.

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              That’s money in 1980 dollars. 15k per year was a lot of of money. A house was about 20-25k.

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                That’s an exaggeration. The median price for new construction in 1980 was $64,600. [1] As for existing housing stock, the median home value in 1980 was $47,200. [2] As housing prices are heavily right skewed, the prices of cheap housing is far closer to the median than the price of expensive housing. Based on a cursory overview of some charts, it seems like the bottom 20% of houses are no more that 30% cheaper than the median, putting them in the $30k range.

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                  We are talking Kansas City. Not a general area like the Midwest.

                  My parents home was 20k in 1975. My grandparents homes were about 10k in the same time frame.

                  Kansas City was very cheap at the time. Yes there were more expensive homes but in the 1980’s working class families didn’t have McMansions.

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            You should look past the Cato Institute’s analysis of the KC schools situation. For example, the summary and conclusion sections of this article from the University of Michigan law school show that the conservative criticisms are based on myth.

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              I lived it. I have not see the Cato analysis and I can speak from experience and the watching the news.

              The goal was to desegregate the schools. That failed. The second goal was to increase test scores. That failed.

              I’ve only skimmed the article you’ve posted but I’ve found numbers errors. It’s fifty pages, so it’ll take some time to get through it. They’re twisting things to silly extremes like minimizing the amount of money Kansas City has to spend.

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        Then why conservative when they actively hate children and society in general? It seems insane to lean that way.

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        Economic issues always come down to economic incentives. You care about property values because your home is an investment. You care about stocks because you have a retirement plan. You care about not being a burden on your children when you’re old and having inheritance to leave behind when you die. You care about crime because you have things to steal and a life to lose.

        I don’t have property. I will never retire. I will never have children. I am nothing and no one and that will never change.

        When I was younger I was a pretty typical liberal. By 30 I was a Marxist-Leninist and desired nothing but the complete destruction of the demon shithole country called Amerikkka. 😘

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              You’re still a person. We should never forget we are all on this journey together and there is a person on the other end.

              Never doubt that.

              The last few years have been strange. It feels like a glitch in the matrix but things will get better.

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                Optimism is for older generations, who lived the before times when life got better year-after-year.

                That has never happened in my entire life.

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                That’s a well intentioned sentiment. So don’t tske any of this as an attack, just a clarification.

                We aren’t just all on this journey together, some of us are oppressed by others. Our problems aren’t abstract, they are a consequence of the ruling class engaging in warfare on the rest of us, and that’s what the person above was getting at.

                We know we’re people, but we also know that we aren’t people to the ruling class.

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                  Same honey but at different places in the journey.

                  That is where both of our parties fail is not realizing it’s the same journey. Your more impacts mine and mine impacts yours. Maybe no directly but like ripples when you throw a rock in water.

                  I buy an iPhone and I am chasing someone to be oppressed making it china.

                  Yet nobody gives a shit when I bring it up.

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                Nothing about the way everything’s going is designed to let me feel like a person. Money’s a requirement to simply exist. Everything’s a race to get enough money to sustain myself. I’m simply a worker who generates profit so my parasite of a boss and the associated shareholders can hang out on yachts. My job is nonsense too that doesn’t help anyone. I’m estranged from my family for gender and lifestyle reasons, can’t make friends because I’m always exhausted from work, can’t go to therapy except sparingly because it’s too expensive.

                No matter how much validity my humanity holds, none of it really matters if none of it can be expressed due to a combination of alienation and dead eyed pessimism about climate change.

                And no, we all aren’t on the same journey together. The economic strata that sits above mine has nothing in common with me.

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                  I am sorry your family won’t accept you for you. If you were my family I’d accept you for you. Hopefully you can get the therapy you need and yes, it’s expensive and it shouldn’t be.

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                No offense, but it seems pretty naive to say things will get better. I try not to jump on conservatives when they are willing to engage, but that’s a pretty rough take.

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                  Things will always get better.

                  I am always willing to enrage. I only block those who don’t want to have a conversation.

                  We are at a weird time in the world. We may have some bumps but it’s hard to image it’ll turn into planet of the apes. Something will have to give and things will improve.

                  There is a theory I use to laugh at about the cycle of generations. I take it more seriously now days.

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    In order to be conservative you have to be afraid, irrationally. Afraid your guns will be taken, afraid the gays are going to out-breed you (not even kidding, they really “think” that), afraid what you want won’t be what everyone does, afraid other people are smarter or more capable, afraid that when you die you won’t get magicked somewhere to live forever. Basically afraid of everything whether it makes any sense or not. And afraid someone else will find out how afraid you are all the time.

    They’re pathetic and not fit to walk a dog much less run anything.

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      A lot of that specific brand of conservatism is very American. While everywhere has conservatives, and I totally agree they’re build on a foundation of personal fear, they have very different presentations in different places!

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    I have heard this my entire life and now that I recently have kids and a home, I find it to be an insane take. If anything, the greater my knowledge of the world becomes the MORE liberal I am. I’m significantly more aware of rigged systems and injustice as I age.

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    I hate it when boomers, specifically, say this. My grandfather, who is Silent Generation, will tell you that he’s gotten more liberal as he’s gotten older. Whenever I hear a boomer say this, it’s used as a shaming, like “you don’t understand now but you will when you’re older”. Turns out I haven’t gotten more conservative. I listened to minority populations and then came out and it’s turned me more leftist.

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      Boomers, in general, are a generation of spoiled children that, for the most part, have never seen the true hardships of any other generation. “Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times.” Boomers are the weak men that created hard times for the following generations, yet they keep living and consuming as if our world wasn’t dying. “Fuck you, got mine” I guess.

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    Boomers got more conservative as they grew older because they’ve been eating shovels of propaganda since reagan and never learned how to fact check like younger generations

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    Young people tend to be more persuadable before 30, and tend to bake in their political views around that age. So big events in one’s 20’s tend to lead to lasting partisan affiliations for life after that.

    FDR’s presidency won over a lot of people to the Democrats in the 30’s and 40’s. Eisenhower’s presidency shifted people over to Republicans in the 50’s. Nixon pushed people away from Republicans. But by the 70’s Democrats were losing a lot of voters, and then Reagan won a bunch of people over to the GOP. Then 9/11 won people over to Republicans, while the Iraq war pushed them away.

    But each of these things had an outsized effect on those under 30. So Boomers who remember getting fed up with Democrats in the 70s and crossing over for Reagan (and then voting Republican in every election since) just thought it was the effect of age, rather than the effect of that particular political moment in 1980.

    And even though this data and the analysis is mainly for Americans, it’s probably reflective of how people shape their own political beliefs everywhere.

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    That’s only if your wealth increases with age. If you had nothing in your 20s and still have nothing in your 30s and 40s, you’d stay mad

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      I’m 44 and my wealth has increased a lot with age, but I still understand I’m financially closer to a homeless crackhead than I am to someone like Jeff Bezos or Elon Musk. I’m more mad than ever because I see how badly most people are getting fucked. And the whole destroying the planet for profit thing.

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    My friends who have kids now did become more conservative. But most of them are very religious and grew up going to church every Sunday. So… I think they might have had a certain influence.

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      After I had kids I found Satanism and became a communist. I have no idea what your friends are doing but they’re doing it wrong.

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      Have you considered cutting out the avocado toast or inheriting a shit ton of money? It’s really not that hard.

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    41, stable finances, kid, decent job, and still BETTER DEAD THAN RED!

    And just to be 100% clear, since I know that phrase meant something completely different 50 years ago, Republicans can get ass-fucked with a spoon

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    My old man has told me this my whole life and I always tell him no, because I’m not a cunt. 42yo so far and still going strong.