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    Ok that’s a fair but sad take.

    I’m conservative but became more socially liberal in my 30’s

    My friend who were liberals, who had children and homes grew slightly more conservative but still were liberals.

    But I do think that is what drives it is the children and homes. You have to care about schools, crime, etc since you’re in the thick of it.

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      Which is weird since conservative politics is all about cutting funds for schools, gutting the department of education completely, no pre k or free lunches for kids, and getting rid of a large portion of our law enforcement. Just doesn’t make sense why any one who cares about education or safety would be conservative

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        Not all conservatives are that way. I support free meals at schools. It makes sense. It’s investing in our children.

        Cutting is a complicated topic. The general consensus is throwing money at a problem isn’t the way to solve it all the time. So I’m not for or against spending on schools until we know what problem the money will solve. If we can’t show a benefit then it shouldn’t be spent.

        Kansas City spent over a billion dollars trying to fix their schools and it didn’t work. Wasted money.

        Cutting law enforcement? Most conservatives want more law enforcement.

        Also don’t confuse the people who are shit stains with an old school conservative like myself. They’re not the same thing.

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            That’s money in 1980 dollars. 15k per year was a lot of of money. A house was about 20-25k.

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              That’s an exaggeration. The median price for new construction in 1980 was $64,600. [1] As for existing housing stock, the median home value in 1980 was $47,200. [2] As housing prices are heavily right skewed, the prices of cheap housing is far closer to the median than the price of expensive housing. Based on a cursory overview of some charts, it seems like the bottom 20% of houses are no more that 30% cheaper than the median, putting them in the $30k range.

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                We are talking Kansas City. Not a general area like the Midwest.

                My parents home was 20k in 1975. My grandparents homes were about 10k in the same time frame.

                Kansas City was very cheap at the time. Yes there were more expensive homes but in the 1980’s working class families didn’t have McMansions.

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                    The data isn’t relevant since it’s not for the area defined. We are talking about a specific geographic area. Kansas City proper.

                    Due to the white flight of the 70’s housing prices declined or only grew fractionally.

                    When my grandparents died, each of their homes only sold under 20k in the late 90’s early 20’s.

                    Comparing the price of home across the Midwest has nothing to do with the price in East Kansas City or SE where I went to school

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          You should look past the Cato Institute’s analysis of the KC schools situation. For example, the summary and conclusion sections of this article from the University of Michigan law school show that the conservative criticisms are based on myth.

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            I lived it. I have not see the Cato analysis and I can speak from experience and the watching the news.

            The goal was to desegregate the schools. That failed. The second goal was to increase test scores. That failed.

            I’ve only skimmed the article you’ve posted but I’ve found numbers errors. It’s fifty pages, so it’ll take some time to get through it. They’re twisting things to silly extremes like minimizing the amount of money Kansas City has to spend.

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      Then why conservative when they actively hate children and society in general? It seems insane to lean that way.

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      Economic issues always come down to economic incentives. You care about property values because your home is an investment. You care about stocks because you have a retirement plan. You care about not being a burden on your children when you’re old and having inheritance to leave behind when you die. You care about crime because you have things to steal and a life to lose.

      I don’t have property. I will never retire. I will never have children. I am nothing and no one and that will never change.

      When I was younger I was a pretty typical liberal. By 30 I was a Marxist-Leninist and desired nothing but the complete destruction of the demon shithole country called Amerikkka. 😘

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            You’re still a person. We should never forget we are all on this journey together and there is a person on the other end.

            Never doubt that.

            The last few years have been strange. It feels like a glitch in the matrix but things will get better.

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              Optimism is for older generations, who lived the before times when life got better year-after-year.

              That has never happened in my entire life.

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                  Industrial production, mostly with simple hand tools and feeding steel parts into welders and presses.

                  It’s so fucking hot. It’s so fucking hard. I’m so fucking tired. Everyday forever until I’m too old too work, and then I’ll take out a 9mm retirement plan.

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                    I get it.

                    Once thing we’d probably agree on we’ve let pensions be replaced by inferior programs.

                    Everyone should be able to retire. Nobody should have to work till they’re 60

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              That’s a well intentioned sentiment. So don’t tske any of this as an attack, just a clarification.

              We aren’t just all on this journey together, some of us are oppressed by others. Our problems aren’t abstract, they are a consequence of the ruling class engaging in warfare on the rest of us, and that’s what the person above was getting at.

              We know we’re people, but we also know that we aren’t people to the ruling class.

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                Same honey but at different places in the journey.

                That is where both of our parties fail is not realizing it’s the same journey. Your more impacts mine and mine impacts yours. Maybe no directly but like ripples when you throw a rock in water.

                I buy an iPhone and I am chasing someone to be oppressed making it china.

                Yet nobody gives a shit when I bring it up.

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                  Okay I’m communist I’m not in one of your parties. I have no idea what you’re talking about journey’s and different places, that doesn’t mean anything. Both of the parties you’re refering to serve the ruling class and help facilitate the oppression of the global working class.

                  There’s more to it, but at the end of the day there are two classes, the global ruling class who oppress, and the global working class who are oppressed. These aren’t different parts of a “journey”, its a global system of production thst is predicated on the exploitation of one class by the other.

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                    It’s a metaphor for life.

                    We are sharing this planet together. My life is not in a vacuum without impacting others.

                    Yeah I don’t buy the whole two class theory. It’s something we will just have to agree to disagree on. I think it’s an overly simple take on things.

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              No offense, but it seems pretty naive to say things will get better. I try not to jump on conservatives when they are willing to engage, but that’s a pretty rough take.

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                Things will always get better.

                I am always willing to enrage. I only block those who don’t want to have a conversation.

                We are at a weird time in the world. We may have some bumps but it’s hard to image it’ll turn into planet of the apes. Something will have to give and things will improve.

                There is a theory I use to laugh at about the cycle of generations. I take it more seriously now days.

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              Nothing about the way everything’s going is designed to let me feel like a person. Money’s a requirement to simply exist. Everything’s a race to get enough money to sustain myself. I’m simply a worker who generates profit so my parasite of a boss and the associated shareholders can hang out on yachts. My job is nonsense too that doesn’t help anyone. I’m estranged from my family for gender and lifestyle reasons, can’t make friends because I’m always exhausted from work, can’t go to therapy except sparingly because it’s too expensive.

              No matter how much validity my humanity holds, none of it really matters if none of it can be expressed due to a combination of alienation and dead eyed pessimism about climate change.

              And no, we all aren’t on the same journey together. The economic strata that sits above mine has nothing in common with me.

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                I am sorry your family won’t accept you for you. If you were my family I’d accept you for you. Hopefully you can get the therapy you need and yes, it’s expensive and it shouldn’t be.

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                  Thank you. And well that’s all fine and good to hope and imagine, but I’ve been trying to actively change things for the past 20 years through socialist organizing. Goes well sometimes, goes poorly most of the time, gotta keep trying anyway .

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                    I’d like to see unions come back. I’d also like to see more people push a communist party.

                    Things are better when there isn’t an echo chamber and people have to compromise to get things done.

                    While I don’t agree with many of the core ideas; the changes would be good for our country.

                    I’ve seen the middle class decline and both parties are guilty because looking in a mirror they’re not that different.

                    So keep pushing; you’re doing the lords work(just an expression) and every bit helps.