• IRL cockroach@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    Whenever I see memes like these i always wonder why people don’t remember surrogacy

    But then i remember the fact that parts of surrogacy are incredibly shit so nvm

  • First Majestic Comet@lemm.ee
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    3 months ago

    Even if I wanted to it wouldn’t be possible due to Androgen deficiency (and a severe unwillingness to take hormones to replace what’s not there) and also the fact that I have abnormal sex chromosomes (XXY). So the Aroace (in my case Enby) wins both through will and biology, check and mate queerphobes.

  • VeganTomato@lemmy.today
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    3 months ago

    Do you really call cutting off your dick and balls so you can’t have kids winning? I mean well it’s something I guess, wouldn’t say it’s winning

  • Miss Brainfarts@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 months ago

    Peer pressure from people that don’t even exist anymore, huh.

    Well tough luck, the only pressure this aroace girl will succumb to is a sale on her favourite garlic bread

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    3 months ago

    “It’s us, the voice of your combined ancestors. Be at peace daughter, live your life to your liking, we are proud to have made it that far and if it ends with you then it was a good run that ends with a smile from Destiny. Fortune be with you.”

  • Nikki@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    not even aroace, just dont like kids and my dating pool is a lot more limited after coming out so its accurate anyway lol

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      3 months ago

      Same.

      Face, body, anxiety, depression, etc…

      Yeah… Even if someone would hold their nose and settle for me I’ve pretty much decided the world is a much better place without more of me. Plus it’s a like a form of torture to bring someone into this world that will be as ugly as me and have all my issues as well.

      Hard pass.

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      3 months ago

      And if you don’t have any offspring so will be yours in one generation.

      This is litteraly why people should have kids, so your personal philosophy and world views can be tought them. So the next generation as a whole can benefit from a diverse set of perspectives on current matters on the world.

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          3 months ago

          That implies someone had given birth to them. ( No everone has niblings.)

          And who said that they’re parents would allow you to teach em your world view? ( Especially as those parents did create children and you didn’t. Hence I presume they would also like to have grandchildren. And you would discourage that.)

      • pancakes@sh.itjust.works
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        3 months ago

        That’s such a weird perspective on having kids.

        Let me ask though, do you not see having kids as slightly immoral due to the negative environmental impact each human has on the planet? Or that global warming will cause immense reduction in quality of life for all humans in the next 30 years and you know they won’t have a good life?

      • OrnateLuna@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        3 months ago

        You do realize you don’t need to have genetic offspring for that right? You make friends and family and just interact with other people and it serves the same purpose and if you really want a child for that then well adoption is also an option

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          3 months ago

          True, but also friends and family are usually either same age or older. ( as in the other response) I assume parents would prefer to have grandchildren, so they would not apprecheate your anti children sentiment spread by you to they’re children.

          True, adoption is also a good thing generally. But to help the genetical pool be diverse and healthy some children of your own wouldnt be bad.