On the other hand, recent studies have indicated that most copulatory vocalizations in women do not accompany their own orgasm, but rather their partner’s ejaculation. The study showed that the man typically finds the woman’s vocalization arousing and highly exciting, and that the woman herself is aware of this.

You need to find the relevant XEP and make sure you have a client that supports it and that it’s enabled on the server.

Last I looked openfire wasn’t very well maintained. I’d check out prosody…

just use host or dog.

❯ host www.google.com
www.google.com has address 142.250.204.4
www.google.com has IPv6 address 2404:6800:4006:814::2004

❯ dog reddit.com TXT
TXT reddit.com. 1h00m00s   "614ac4be-8664-4cea-8e29-f84d08ad875c"
TXT reddit.com. 1h00m00s   "MS=ms71041902"
...

I was running a federated synapse on a much lower spec’d machine than that … and it was fine. I don’t think it’s federation that does it, it’s joining large and active groups.

How are you using rsync with B2? Are you mounting the bucket locally?

Unless you are very constrained on resources, using a database per application is much easier.

• Caddy
• Vaultwarden
• LLDAP
• AdGuard + Sync
• Linkding + Injector
• Jellyfin + Infuse (tvOS) & FinAmp (iOS)
• Pocketbase
• Uptime-kuma
• Cloudflared

Services that I’m experimenting with:

• Owntone
• Gonic + Supersonic (macOS) & play:Sub / Amperfy (iOS)
• Calibre (can’t get Kobo sync working reliably)
• Audiobookshelf (love the idea but not using much yet)

At the moment I only use lldap. I’ll probably add Authelia at some point …

I’ve been playing with DeltaChat a little bit. How do you like it? Have you found any problems with it? Curious about any experiences …

I swapped from Blocky to AdGuardHome because of AdGuardSync.

The author is actively answering questions on the Reddit thread, probably best to ask them.

It has sieve support and rspamd/spamd are supported via filters. It doesn’t require ldap. PGP doesn’t require any server support so that should work fine. I haven’t seen anything about supporting encryption at rest.

JMAP was developed by the guys that run FastMail (who are the primary developers of the open source email server Cyrus-IMAP). It’s easier to implement and more performant.

Side note, Cyrus is a pretty amazing mail server. It doesn’t get much love here, but it’s bombproof, fast, supports multi-node clusters, IMAP, NNTP, CalDAV, CardDAV and more that I’m forgetting. It’s just a bit old school as far as configuring goes.

I think there’s a lot of FUD around this. Yes, deliverability can be a PITA, but with a clean IP and good setup it’s usually solvable. Worst case, you can pay a small amount to use a 3rd party SMTP relay and still get most of the benefits of selfhosting. It wasn’t deliverability that made me stop selfhosting it was spam, and it wasn’t that dealing with spam was that hard, it was just annoying.

How does that work, having the same IP internally and externally?

A friend’s pet ferret jumped onto my keyboard once, right as I was typing rm -rf /... on a work machine … exciting!

Sorry I’m being stupid. I’m on CGNAT at home but this is actually on a VPS.

I am behind cgnat but why would that matter for trying to reach a service on the same box?

Caddy is server subdomains and standalone domains, doesn’t seem to make a difference which is which … neither work. For the moment I’m monitoring them from another server but that’s annoying … which I could figure out what I’m doing wrong!

Thanks. In this case I’m trying to monitor Caddy itself (sites that are just html files that it hosts rather than redirect to other containers). I could point the monitor at caddy:443 but then I’d need to find someway to specify the HOST: for the virtualhosting to work?

• AdGuardHome
• Vaultwarden
• Linkding (plus Injector Extension)
• Jellyfin (plus Infuse and FinAmp)
• Owntone
• Caddy
• Pocketbase
• Uptime-Kuma