Snikket (which is run by a Prosody dev) is aiming to be the “one app” of XMPP. Their Android version is, IIRC, rebranded Conversations. Not sure on iOS/macOS but I think they have something there as well. And of course their server software is Prosody with a few extra plugins configured by default. All FOSS

Yes, the domain to block is “threads.net”. Ask your admins to consider doing that.

(Funnily enough, the Cisco in-house messaging and video calling solution we use at my work, through which we also receive landline calls, is still running on XMPP to this day, so I sorta became a XMPP user after all…except I haven’t started this software in 10 months because fuck landline calls and we have better alternatives for chatting.)

XMPP is still chugging along on the backends of stuff like that. I’m not sure but I think WhatsApp has some XMPP in it still.

The most ironic one though is Jitsi, which is what Matrix uses/used (until they started working on Element Calls) to do video calls.

I believe, with Authorized Fetch (what Mastodon calls secure mode) blocking intermediaries won’t be needed, as instances will have to cryptographically “authorize” themselves to receive/send data, and you can just say “no” to any requests coming from threads.net, acting basically as a “defederation enforcement mode”.

I could be wrong though, haven’t caught up on the exact details.

Oh yeah, I briefly tried Prosody/XMPP (before a domain scalper stole a previous domain of mine because of a loophole with the TLD i chose) and it worked really well.

It’s a shame Matrix seems to be the current hot new thing when, with a bit of UX polish on all the apps, XMPP would work just as well if not even better.

Thoughts, prayers, and getting the low hanging fruit down (disabling root login, ssh public keys, updates)

As long as .world doesn’t defederate them back, Beehaw can re-federate whenever they want.

I used to mess around with CSS and even made some reasonably popular themes (not under this username ofc) so I had like 4 private subs.

If you’re thinking of hosting Matrix on that small of a server consider going with Conduit or Dendrite. They’re not as feature complete as Synapse but they’re substantially lighter.

No idea if Gotosocial supports relays or not, which is my choice of software so far. There seems to be some incompatiblilty between gup.pe and GTS (alpha software and all, expected issues obviously) so those are a no-go as well.

Following accounts are fine, but it’s really the creation part that causes issues. Unless you go full on reply guy, and I have at least some sliver of shame left in my body to not go full reply guy.

The thing about botsin.space is that it’s open to anyone who wants to host a bot, so there really isn’t any “centralized” listing besides what Mastodon offers by itself, and most bots generally have any instructions on their bios or pins.

.social + .online are the mastodon equivalents of lemmy.ml, except they’ve been through several mass migrations already so they kinda know what they’re doing

.world is (perhaps un)surprisingly the mastodon equivalent of lemmy.world, same admin and all

but tbf https://joinmastodon.org is so much more polished than join-lemmy that it’s actually worth going through instead of just piling on the largest

To be fair, PHP has slowly been getting it’s shit together since PHP 7, and 8 seems to be in a reasonably great shape compared to the horrors of 5.6

Microservices aren’t a silver bullet. There’s likely quite a lot that can be done until we need to split some parts out, and once that happens I expect that federation would be the thing to split out as that’s one of the more “active” parts of the app compared to logins and whatnot.

Rootful Podman & podman-compose. Waiting on the version of Podman that supports passt to hit Debian Bookworm or backports to attempt rootless. Deployed with Ansible except a few manual parts like creating the Postgres databases themselves.

No auto updates or notifications so far, as there seems to be a couple incompatibility issues left with Watchtower & Podman. Although since I switched CrowdSec to monitor journald instead of the Podman socket I don’t really have a reason to keep the daemon running, and I think that’s for the best.

So when are we readying the Matrix homeservers?

…and getting Element to care about chat UX rather than throwing Matrix at any other problem they can think of (no we do not need a vr metaverse but FOSS)

aside from moderation stuff, smaller instances tend to be faster and, ironically, more reliable in the shorter term, as they’re not constantly getting hugged to death

and in the long term while they may be more vulnerable to running out of cash and shutting down, they’re less costly to maintain overall, so as long as people chip in that’s not as big of a concern

Well you’re in luck because Lemmy 0.18 rips out all WebSocket code.

Not OP but I can answer with my own stats:

In just a week, With BTRFS compression (compress-force=zstd:3) & deduplication (via bees), media is at about 1GB (and I am subscribed to media-heavy communities like 196) and the postgres DB is at about 550MB (which is also currently shared with Matrix Dendrite)

At “idle” (as you can be while being connected to ActivityPub & Matrix), the immediate CPU and RAM usage breakdown per container is:

NAME        CPU %       MEM USAGE / LIMIT  MEM %       NET IO             BLOCK IO           PIDS        CPU TIME         AVG CPU %
pict-rs     0.20%       18.92MB / 4.005GB  0.47%       3.319GB / 1.105GB  17.58GB / 3.239GB  13          1h16m57.232828s  0.59%
crowdsec    1.39%       44.23MB / 4.005GB  1.10%       106.4MB / 23.46MB  25.53GB / 486.7MB  11          45m28.744419s    1.95%
caddy       0.63%       73.06MB / 4.005GB  1.82%       1.675GB / 1.977GB  3.322GB / 720MB    10          21m9.94572s      0.90%
dendrite    1.58%       197.7MB / 4.005GB  4.94%       912.8MB / 2.33GB   8.718GB / 4.761GB  12          53m26.302022s    1.43%
postgres    5.33%       82.51MB / 4.005GB  2.06%       56.22GB / 7.961GB  20.92GB / 295.7GB  23          8h20m28.078567s  2.86%
lemmy-ui    0.00%       48.71MB / 4.005GB  1.22%       3.491GB / 5.961GB  3.603GB / 5.267GB  12          31m35.884936s    0.24%
lemmy-be    2.82%       29.01MB / 4.005GB  0.72%       16.45GB / 57.85GB  7.966GB / 6.439GB  6           3h6m34.633508s   1.42%

Net IO you shouldn’t really care about as that includes inter-container networking. I’m trying to find how much outgoing data have been transferred but because the month just ended I have no idea how accurate the numbers are.

Perhaps they’re not trying to “be successful”?