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Cake day: February 29th, 2024

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  • In a world where the person “advocating” a feature who isn’t actually advocating for anything at all, doesn’t even consider that not everyone on the fediverse uses lemmy, and that not everyone running lemmy has it up to date, but most importantly, calls an existing and perfectly valid and literally harmless accessibility solution “abuse” because they don’t like it for whatever reason.














  • Hey, look, you found a word to describe the situation that isn’t a slur, in your attempt to excuse and justify the use of a slur!

    Pro tip: work on your internalised and lateral ableism. Or at the very least, don’t be that person who gives people a pass on behalf of an entire community, because you personally don’t think it affects you or others like you, because there isn’t one.




  • ShareMySims@sh.itjust.worksOPto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneRule
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    2 days ago

    And the thing is that this post isn’t an open question about tastes or attraction, it isn’t an invitation for debate, it is a simple indisputable statement of fact, but some people are just too fragile to sit by and let truths that make them uncomfortable exist, they must make it about themselves and let the world know who they would and wouldn’t fuck, because that’s all other people (though lets be honest, these are 95% likely to be cis straight men making these comments, so women) are to them - objects.



  • Vegetarian/vegan hotdogs are great for this, since they can last fine without refrigeration for a decent amount of time. When I was a kid my parents would always pack them when we went camping, take a packet out of the freezer on the way out, pop in one of those soft cooler bags, by lunchtime they’re thawed and good to go, and if you have any left, they’ll still be good for dinner! No cooking should be needed (always double check the packet though), just some condiments, or even a tin of baked beans to make a meal of it.








  • Sorry, I was just trying to relate this to autism in a silly way, no criticism or meanness intended.

    What’s the difference between deep touch and deep pressure

    I don’t know for sure, but personally I would say that deep touch is the opposite of soft touch (like grabbing someone’s hand vs lightly brushing against it), while deep pressure is about deliberately applying pressure deep in to the tissue (so yeah, like massaging, but also like a really heavy weighted blanket or the steamroller with a ball thing).

    I must have missed your previous post, or not had the brain power to reply, good to see these conversations happening either way. 😊