A stance of “Both sides are bad” is just a stance that favors the Status Quo.
The underdog needs the extra assistance, the superior doesn’t.
So for that reason I’m pro-Israel, don’t want either side winning, don’t want aid to either side, so that defaults to a pro-Israel stance.
I’m comfortable being labeled as such.

I’m still mostly on Reddit, but I’ve definitely cut down my participation. For example I stopped up/downvoting posts entirely. And haven’t really been participating in askreddit / eli5

The post I’ve made are either mirrored, or limited to relatively obscure communities.

As for lemmy, still lurking, not quite ready to dive in.

Their entire identity revolved around reddit. They devoted their entire life to the site. With that level of commitment you find the time.