I switch between this and Shutter on a regular basis depending on what I feel like using that day.

My autistic ass has always thought of it as “I’m going to the (specific) bathroom (that I will be using)”

If just telling her what you want isn’t enough for you to feel like you’re communicating effectively, try asking her if you could add to it by telling her how you want it, and then maybe expand to how you’re desiring to feel about it.

E.g. not just “I would like oral” but instead, “I would like oral, and I’d love to hear that you’re enjoying it, however you want to express it.” <- This is a request that is direct and specific but doesn’t feel robotic or unceremonious IMHO.

I have ASD and my wife doesn’t, so we’ve established that it often makes the most sense when we just explicitly just ask one another, “what can I do for you tonight?” Which leads to very specific answers about what we’re wanting to get out of it and how we can best achieve that together. “I’ve been thinking about you in this way” or “I’d like to know what it looks/feels/tastes/sounds like when you …” Followed by describing whatever action would best fulfill the desire, followed by any specifics and how we’re feeling about it now. “Now that we’ve talked about it I’m definitely excited to see that” and such.

Dunno if that’s helpful but there might be ways to make it feel more special while still being explicit and direct! Just talk about the how and why and how you feel about it.

Most of the complaining I see is that they’re not going open source, they’re going “source available”

Basically, imagine every gun has a laser beam coming out the end. If that laser lights something up, that something is in danger.

Java devs gotta be able to read the whole name of their WidgetFactoryBuilderRepositoryConstructorFactoryRepositoryBuilderFactoryRepositoryManagerBuilderFactoryRepositoryFactoryFactoryFactoryBuilderFactory

Can’t forget the intermediate step of PHP 9: PHP borrow checker

PHP has gotten really good over the past few versions, actually. Lots of really great stuff has been added, it feels like it resembles rust more every release lol

That just sounds like something a discord bot could do

There’s always the fork network graph, but it’s not exactly easy to spot which forks are good, just the ones with the most recent commits

Well they are both interoperable

Oh man, thanks for this. I had no idea, having used gitea for years now.

Four words all uppercase, one word all lowercase

Worth mentioning: Anyone using TachiyomiJ2K (I use it for Surface Duo dual-screen support) or another fork with support who has some self-hosting prowess, there’s always Suwayomi - It will let you “migrate” to a third-party sources repo even if your app doesn’t support it, since it becomes your device’s only local extension.

Ok, sure. I recognize that not everyone has a computer. And sure, an F-droid release would be really helpful for those people, if “build it yourself” was the only way to get the app.

But … It’s not like the app is inaccessible. It’s on the play store. You can install it.

My main frustration is the outright demand for the project creator to “Just release it on F-Droid” - Something that requires the creator to get familiar with F-droid and do the extra leg-work to release it there. But … It’s an open source app, created for free by someone who wanted to create it. They owe you nothing. Not even “good distribution”.

Wow, the entitlement of “I don’t want to do things myself, do extra work for me instead”.

Vulcan on a hulk hen is absolute fire

Honestly all of the “it runs badly even on a 4090” stuff is talking about 4K with all the settings maxed - It runs at a solid minimum 30 for me at 1440p on my 3080 at nearly ultra settings. As long as you’re not expecting 60FPS at 4K, you can enable RT overdrive on affordable hardware.

Cyberpunk 2077’s RT Overdrive mode looks absolutely insanely good.

Meanwhile I replaced my casters on my aeron with skateboard wheel casters to smoothly glide about