CUDA accelerated JSON parser is sorely needed

As sad as it is, having prison like accommodation without getting a criminal record first, is an improvement

You are literally disagreeing with a comment that suggests holding opinions, trying them in public forums, and re-evaluating those ideas if you gain enough evidence to the contrary.

What are you describing if not that?

Thank you, it’s hard to fight for nuance in such a polarised world, but I appreciate your tenacity.

We can all be winners if we just talk

Yes, totally agree, we should all just stick to our initial assumptions and then rationalize them afterwards

It’s not a competition. Let’s all be better

I literally just want to say thank you. I’ve been trying to get across something similar, and I’m sure we’d disagree on a few issues. But your compassion and understanding of all points of view is genuinely inspiring

Acknowledging someone’s pain also makes it easier to understand their motives, find common ground, and love forward together

That’s all very valid, I’ve experienced what you’ve said here too.

On the other hand, I’ve also had interactions with people who trauma dump as a deliberate tactic to abuse my empathy to excuse their toxic behaviour. I believe this is fairly common with narcissists.

It’s made interactions with people who are genuinely trauma dumping really hard for me, as it immediately gets my guard up and adds a huge amount of friction to future interactions.

I get that this is partially just my problem, and also that this comment itself is kinda trauma dumping. But I thought it would be helpful as another reason as to why trauma dumping might not be the best idea

Sorry if this question seems stupid, but you seem to really know what you’re talking about.

My understanding is that the main issues TERFs have is protecting women’s spaces, and that by having a vague or arbitrary definition of womanhood it erodes those spaces.

I personally would like to see a society that’s far less focused on gender and minimises that kind of segregation outside of medical necessity. But I know that’s quite extreme and I don’t have a “perfect” solution, assuming we’re going to keep things like women’s only gyms, domestic violence shelters, and professional sports.

Judging based on “passing” is clearly transphobic and ignores any kind of intersex/non-binary presentation. As well as some masculine featured afab women somehow failing. And basing on biology is clearly flawed. So if it’s not too much trouble what would your suggestion be?

I guess in the modern version you’d have the child, then an adult with all bars empty. Then that’s just it because they died before reaching retirement age from stress and poverty related illness

I’m not disagreeing, I also don’t want these models producing CSAM.

But in the hypothetical that we have a clean model that still generates CSAM, what would be your argument against it?

Not taking sides, but his argument hinged on the stable diffusion model not having CSAM in it, and using non-CSAM images in order to generate CSAM.

So he’s already answered the question of what the models are trained on.

Whether those models actually are clean/safe is a different question.

Ah yes, I remember how the birds of paradise evolved such complicated dance routines and brilliant colours for the sole purpose of self expression. Or the brilliant peacock that evolved a huge unwieldy display just to feel good about themselves

It would be great if the Jellyfin Devs could have some sort of paid service that just does all the DNS/reverse proxy stuff required for remote access, and charge like £5 a month for it.

They would just have to make it clear that the money is going towards further development, not just for the actual service. And obviously continue to allow others to set things up themselves if desired.

I’d pay for that so quick, it would just be so convenient

The problem I have with Plex is that default UI is bloated with recommendations, alternative sources and what might as well be ads. Meaning I need to help less technically literate (and sometimes technically literate) friends set up the UI anyway. Just so that they can actually cut through the piles of bullshit to see my server content.

Plex’s default UI is ruined by it trying to shovel its extra shit onto you constantly, making it a terrible new user experience.

At least with Jellyfin you connect to the server and you’re done. It’s a lot more manual, but the UI is just better and easier to navigate.

I say this as an avid Plex user, mostly due to Jellyfin having somewhat dodgy support for more advanced audio and video codecs

I cannot tell if this argument is for, against, or just dumb