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  • Darkassassin07@lemmy.cato196@lemmy.blahaj.zonerule
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    1 month ago

    The context you are missing is that these interactions aren’t limited to strangers or the internet, and typically form a pattern of regular behaviour vs just a one off comment.

    A person is a victim of and suffers from the effects of their own traumatic experiences and instead of learning to deal with them and heal, they induce others to suffer some those effects as well; thus turning others into victims of that same trauma.

    It’s not as big and dramatic as a murder, but it’s still victimization.


  • Darkassassin07@lemmy.cato196@lemmy.blahaj.zonerule
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    1 month ago

    No. It’s not appropriate to take someone’s joyful conversation about their experiences and shift the focus to you and your past trauma. It’s an incredibly shitty thing to do.

    To be clear; The previous comment was not a response to OP, it’s a response to people that overshadow/intentionally bring down other peoples happiness with their past traumas. Like the humanoid character in the image did.

    An alternative to having lazers shoot from your eyes.