Something I’ve always wondered is what kind of women were in the lives of incel men when they were young. Did they have a bad relationship with their mother? Did they lack sisters or other female family members? Or is their family situation irrelevant? Maybe some particular situation in their early years caused them to develop a complex around women?
I think what they’re (very verbosely) trying to say is that feminism tells men what not to do, but doesn’t tell them what to do if they don’t want to be alone. That’s part of why so many are lost and either end up in despair or reject feminism and become crazy incels.