• Prunebutt@slrpnk.net
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    4 months ago

    I think most people simply don’t appreciate what having a child is and what a massive responsibility it is.

    I think you’re talking out of your own ass, if you believe that most parents don’t know all that.

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      4 months ago

      From my experience,I personally agree with that sentiment. A lot of parents and parents to be put a lot on their kids that doesn’t need to be there, many don’t understand how much work it will be, and a lot put in much less work than they should.

      It sounds like you are or would be an engaged parent to know it’s a lot of work to raise a little individual, but there are many people from many backgrounds.

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        4 months ago

        That’s simply something, no parent would say, so yeah: talking out of their asses galore down here.

        So how about we fix the society as to that not only übermenschen can get children and born children have the resource of an intact social safety-net? Maybe that would be preferable to childless asses shaming parents whose situations they have no access to?

        Most of the time, it’s a lack of resources that disables parents to properly care for their kids. Try to be a supportive parent if you work 3 jobs to make ends meet.

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      4 months ago

      mmmmm no id say youre talking out of your own ass.

      Many parents when you truly get down to it seem to think the most important part of being a parent is spreading their genes and maintaining a bloodline.

      I truly mean it when I say most parents dont realize how profound having a kid truly is. Otherwise i truly believe people take longer before having kid when it comes to finding another person to raise a kid with, considering what mental illnesses, or diseases that lurk in your dna.

      I also think abortion wouldnt be that much of an issue if people consider when its truly the right time to raise a child.

      So nah suck it brah.

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        Many parents when you truly get down to it seem to think the most important part of being a parent is spreading their genes and maintaining a bloodline.

        WTF are you talking about? I don’t know a single parent that does that.

        I’ll have to play the “you’re no parent, so you simply have no idea card” here, since it’s obviously like that.

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          good job dumbass i stated in my original post that im not having kids. and idgaf about what you’ve experienced ive experienced things completely different from you so fuck off and die right?

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            4 months ago

            And what do we call people who talk shit about stuff they don’t understand, children?

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            It’s “idiots”. Alternatively “dumbfucks”.

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                  4 months ago

                  lmfao thanks for proving my point kiddo. Go have a deep emotional connection to another human being and fall truly in love before coming at someone about the pains of conception and raising another human. Get fucked. literally

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                    4 months ago

                    The only point being proven here is that I’m living rent free inside your head, you hateful person :p

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      4 months ago

      As a parent, I thought I had an idea. Nope, still surprised. And I wanted the kid and have means to support them.

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      You quoted the part where they said most people, but you’re replying as if they said most parents.

      Anyway, you’d hope people who don’t know all that would learn better after the kid comes out, but I know some people don’t. I can name two off the top of my head.