ok, i see. this is a complete misunderstanding then.

i undersrand “heterosexual” as being attracted to a person of a different gender then one owns. this is what i operated on and i think if you go back and reread what i said, while keeping this in mind, this should clear up.

now, what you did here is exactly what you are accusing me of. you are imposing your definition of heterosexuality onto me and denying my own.

to your definition of heterosexuality. please keep in mind i am a nonbimary person myself. while i am not denying your definition to you and never did, i consider claiming that heterosexuality is inherently nonbimary exclusive quite binarynormative, bordering on nonbinaryphobic. heterosexuality is not just something for binary people.

And enbies are not women, even if AFAB. They are neither man nor woman, that’s what makes them non-binary, that’s the point.

if i were uncharitable, i could say, that your defnition for nonbinary is exclusing nonbinary men and women (which is an actual and valid thing ppl identify as) and denying peoples genders. i wont tho, because i get what you mean.

i hope you can understand how you behaved immendsy rude here. you attacked me seemingly without even trying to understand what i am saying and in the process multiple times did exactly what you accused me of doing, agruably in worse.